COACHING
with David Lea
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David Lea’s approach goes beyond traditional “talk therapy.”
His world-renowned coaching delivers real, transformative change for men and women. Â
Through safe but challenging virtual sessions, David empowers you with a safe space to confront current and past behaviors, rewire your mental narratives, and step into a more empowered, aligned version of yourself. Â
His process is both compassionate and directive, guiding you to honor your unique journey, navigate relationships with confidence, and truly heal.
Step 01.
Identify Your Inverted Energy Dynamics™
Our process begins with you completing our personalized Audit process to discover the wounded masculine and feminine energetics that may be affecting your sense of self and relationships. In order to know where your healing journey will go, we must first know where you are now and where you have been. Through our comprehensive assessment, we explore the nuances of your individual experiences, gathering essential insights about your past and historical dynamics. Following the completion of your assessment, you’ll meet with David Lea virtually for a private and personalized session to review and receive clarity and direction in the next steps of your healing process. By focusing on your unique thumbprint of wounding, we align our approach with your needs to effectively help you create a path towards genuine transformation.
Step 02.
Validate the Root Cause of Your Wounding
Once we've identified your unique composition of energetic wounding, it's time to create a safe environment for us to get to work. Your new vision for a healthier, more confident you becomes a reality as we identify and validate the root of your masculine and feminine wounding, via unprocessed childhood trauma, and incorporate more elevated dynamics within yourself. We provide timeless healing guidelines, personalized communication templates, cutting-edge self-development content, and tangible tools and healing strategies to discover and deeply connect with yourself, priming your mind, body, and energy to connect with your partner, and the world around you at the depths you desire.
Step 03.
Assimilate a Healthier Self
We equip you with the tools and training to maintain your individual healing and strengthen your partnership effectively, and together, we guide your next steps for the legacy of your life, and love for others, to be remembered. Typical experiences that used to stress you out, will now amuse you. You will experience more of life’s simple joys, and be less inhibited by fear and anxiety. Feeling comfortably numb, burnt out, entrapped, insecure, inadequate, and disconnected will be elevated to states of empowerment, confidence, awareness, purpose, peace, joy, resilience, and freedom.
Your First Step:
MEN:Â Masculine Energy Audit with Trauma-Informed Coach David Lea
WOMEN: Feminine Energy Audit with Trauma-Informed Coach David Lea
"Traditional Therapy doesn't hold a candle to the work that you do. It is life changing. I know so many who could use this."
Leigh S. | United States
"I can act in ways now that were impossible before - being present, loving, and engaged - because I continue to heal from childhood trauma while developing new learned behaviors during the journey."
Steve C. | United States
"I look forward to every session, even the ones that I know will be difficult or emotional. Because I feel safe and cared for and never judged. This is, hands down, the best investment I have made in myself.”
Samantha B. | United States
YOUR JOURNEY TOWARDÂ
A HEALTHIER LIFE
LOOKS LIKE THIS:
WOUNDED MASCULINE ENERGY
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x  Controlling
x  Combative
x  Critical
x  Emotionally Unavailable
x  Overly Competitive
x  Defensive
x  Demanding
x  Hyper-Independent
HEALTHYÂ MASCULINE ENERGY
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+Â Â Confident
+Â Protective
+Â Resilient
+Â Reliable
+Â Direct
+Â Decisive
+ Â Purposeful
+Â Consistent
WOUNDED FEMININE ENERGY
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x  Passive
x  Appeasing
x  Indecisive
x  Dependent on Others
x  Easily Influenced
x  Desperate for Validation
x  Complains without Action
x  Without Purpose or Discipline
HEALTHY FEMININE ENERGY
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+ Â Patient
+Â Playful
+Â Creative
+Â Sensitive
+Â Wise
+Â Intuitive
+Â Expressive
+Â Flexible
Client Testimonials
"I feel like I've reached a new level of self-awareness that has grown my faith, my appreciation for myself, and paved the way for taking my marriage to the next level."
I had been wrestling with mental and emotional anguish for years, but only after meeting and discussing my pain with David was I able to deduce what I was experiencing was actually unhealed trauma. I have spent almost twenty years in the military, so getting to the root cause of mental and emotional trauma is not largely understood or embraced.
Through my work with David, I was able to identify decades of pain I had been masking behind a tough exterior to protect my vulnerabilities. We’ve been working together for just over six-months, but I feel like I've reached a new level of self-awareness that has grown my faith, my appreciation for myself, and paved the way for taking my marriage to the next level.
Mike K.
"David provides a safe space to explore who you really are and where you want to go."
I started working with David two years ago, after I had listened to him in a podcast. The 1-on-1 coaching sessions with him have been the best investment into my personal growth I've ever made.
We are covering all areas of my life from love relationship to parenting, from business to healing past wounds from my childhood.
David provides a safe space to explore who you really are and where you want to go. You learn how to ask yourself the right questions, some of which can be quite uncomfortable - and this is where healing and growth happens.
The work we have been doing together on Internal Family Systems and masculine/feminine polarity have deeply impacted me, and have also provided valuable new perspectives for my own coaching practice with my clients.
Over the course of our coaching relationship, I rediscovered who I really am and what I want, learnt to define and establish boundaries and reconnected with my feminine energy.
Nicole R.
"David teaches us men what men need to be taught."
I've never done anything like this. I didn't know what to expect. Turns out, it far surpassed any expectations.
I have been working with David and I've changed so much about myself for the better.
David teaches us men what men need to be taught.
I was myself for the first time and was shown how to love myself, listen to my body, and not be so hard on my inner self.
Some topics are learning how to control myself when triggers arise.
Men, the most beautiful gift you can give your woman is healing yourself and doing this work. I promise you that you will not regret a single moment.
Jason P.
Client Testimonials
"David is incredibly well-versed in trauma-informed healing and has gone on his own healing journey, which allows him to relate to what we're going through."
Before working with David to begin healing my trauma, I was living a very reactive life. Due to known and unknown trauma from childhood (and even adulthood), I spent most of my time pretending like everything was great and then exploding in rage at the slightest provocation. This was especially concerning in my roles as wife and mother.
As David and I began working together, I started to recognize the root cause of my unhealthy thoughts and behavior. His guidance, compassion, and leadership has helped me uncover forgotten memories and begin to heal from these traumatic incidents so that I can begin to show up as a grounded, healthy woman in all aspects of my life.
It's truly changed my life. I no longer feel helpless. Before I began this work, I had started to feel like I was "crazy", like I was completely at the mercy of my turbulent emotions, and I wondered if I'd ever overcome that.
If you're like me, you've probably had the thought -- "Do I need to go to therapy? I really feel like something is off and I need professional help to uncover it and change it." This was my state of mind about a month before I began working with David. David is incredibly well-versed in trauma-informed healing and has gone on his own healing journey, which allows him to relate to what we're going through.
His level of professionalism is impressive and unwavering. If you're ready to stop living under the thumb of your turbulent emotions and start living as the strong, calm, grounded person you're meant to be, I highly recommend working with David Lea.
Chrissie K.
" Because I feel safe and cared for and never judged . . . This is, hands down, the best investment I have made in myself."
David came into my life at a time of great change and uncertainty for me. My 22-year marriage had ended. I moved cross country back to my home town, changing jobs, losing friendships, and floundering.
There were so many questions: Who am I? What do I want from my life? How do I make it happen? The answer was David.
He has an amazing ear for the language used which helps him help you to drill down to find the root of the feelings. Then the real work begins – journaling, working on boundaries, learning how to have elevated conversations, all these things I have learned from David. And I am still learning, and growing, and enjoying the process.
I look forward to every session, even the ones that I know will be difficult or emotional. Because I feel safe and cared for and never judged. He listens intently. We laugh and cry together. And I always feel supported.
This is, hands down, the best investment I have made in myself.
Samantha B.
